The Miracle Marriage

Suppose tonight when you are sleeping and the entire house is quiet, a miracle happened. The miracle changes all the things that you are not happy with in your marriage, and makes them right. But, you don’t know it because you are sleeping. When you wake up tomorrow morning, how will you know that the miracle happened, what will be different?

Close your eyes for a moment and try and picture what that miracle would be like. What would be the very first thing you would notice as being different? Would it be something about you, your husband or your home? Think about it because the answer to these questions is your map to a miracle marriage.

Now imagine that your husband/wife has just woken up, what is the first thing that they will notice about you that has changed? It might sound crazy, but now you know which direction you have to take yourself to build the marriage that you want to have.

Take a few minutes to think about this, get concrete, get into the details.

Let’s imagine that your best friend, brother, mother (or therapist) is watching you with a hidden camera, what would they notice about you and your marriage, what would be the obvious changes.

Know that you have the abilities to make these changes happen, you and your spouse have the talents and skills that you need to make your marriage into what you want it to be, you just need to practice using them more often.

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